Sending Body Signals to Attract your Date
This is the part of your date that you will not need words but just using body language to attract your partner. Eventually, this has been a practice of women ever since. Knowing the secrets of how to apply body language during a date is a vital tool that will improve your skills in attracting the right person. Please note that it can also be used to send a signal to get lost to a wrong date.
The Power of Eye Contact
It is a fact that the more you establish eye contact with your date, the better. Once you are with your date, start using sidelong glances. Then go for a direct eye contact. The moment he or she turns to look at you, lower your eyes and smile to yourself. It indicates that you were watching him secretly and got embarrassed that he or she caught you staring. It interprets that you are really interested with your date. The next act is to stare at him straight in your date's eye and bring out your best smile.
On the contrary, if you are not interested with your date and he or she keeps on staring at you that shows he really is interested then look away and never stare back at your date again. During a conversation, always try to look away by turning your stare around the room or even outside of it. Definitely, your date can get your message that you are not interested.
Making the First Impression is Important
There are times that when you are in the bar on in a party you suddenly got the chance to see a gorgeous guy but the sad part is that he does not give a second glance after spotting you. What is the reason? Probably you were not in your best dress at that moment and the opportunity got away. Most of the time, when you go inside a bar or a party, most people will absolutely look at you as you go inside the scene. Therefore, it is quite important to look your best and wear your best personality at all times. Wearing a smile and having the confidence in you are the best tools to attract any guy or girl in any event.
The Power of Hand Movements
Did you know that hand movements can send powerful messages? A sample of that is that when you keep your hands unclenched during a date shows that you are interested to know more about your dating partner. While caressing objects such as the lock of your hair or a rim of your drinking glass in a rhythmic motion is a sign that you are open to your date. Another positive movement you can do is to try picking fuzz from his clothing or touching a part of his body to emphasize a point from your discussion. The best hand movement is using the "accidental touch" when reaching for any object in your dinner table.
For instances that you don't have any interest in your date then try jamming your hands in your pocket or regularly clean your eyeglasses or anything that will distract the conversation. Another effective hand signal that you are bored is to tap or drum your hands on the table all the time.
Overall Body Messages
There are different body postures that can transmit your message to your dating partner. One way to relay that you are an open person is to have an open posture. Body movements such as keeping your feet flat on the floor and leaning forward are signs that show interest and slightly tilting your head or crossing and uncrossing your legs are other positive body movements that show that you are interested with your date.
In the meantime, actions such as turning your body away from your date or crossing your arms and holding your glass high while drinking are vital signs that you are not interested with your date.
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