A kiss is one of the most intimate and sensuous things you can experience with another person. There is no perfect or right way to kiss. Many people also experience anxiety about kissing or don't know how to ask for a kiss. Don't worry; the following steps will give to some basic know-how about kissing especially French Kissing. This may be useful either you're getting ready for your first kiss, or you're an experienced kisser and just want to improve your game for your first kiss with a new partner.
Freshen your breath, as you never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone. Because your mouth will be open in a French kiss, fresh breath is especially important. Properly brush your teeth, get a good bath and freshen up before meeting the other person. Avoid foods that smell strong like garlic, onion, pickle, milk etc.Moisten your lips with lipstick or a lip balm. Dry lips are not attractive and also do not move well together. Avoid heavy layer of lipstick or balm, as they may usually stuck off from the lips while performing passionate kissing.Get into a comfortable position so that you can lean to each other easily.
You may sit side by side on a comfy sofa or bed.Hold your lover, firmly but gently - don't cause pain. It would be better to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides. Move your faces closer. Angle your heads in a way that your noses don't strike. To avoid this lean your heads slightly in opposite direction. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes, but once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood. Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, and also an art that should be learned properly. Start learning from the basic kissing and then slowly and steadily advance to the next level. First get comfortable with simple closed lip-to-lip kissing before practicing another technique. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need to have permission to French kiss someone, but when your lips are locked with your partner you may want to stop and ask, Hey, this is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth? If you get the positive signal, then tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips. Sense your partner's moves. If the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion. Note that If your partner's tongue does not respond in same fashion or if they pull away, then stop and save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.If you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of French kissing. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues.After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it and other things like that. Add variety. Explore the other areas of the mouth, especially the roof of the mouth. Sometimes kiss deeper, for example, and other times pay more attention to the lips than the tongue. Also try with holding the kiss longer or shorter to explore the art of kissing.Don't bite. Whatever you do, don't bite else your pleasure will come to ground before starting.Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly; don't drill your way through. If you're kissing for an extended period, take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. Don't ever try to breath through mouth while kissing.To light up the sensation a little bit more try to use you hands on your partner's body. Embrace your partner, cup his or her face very gently in your hands, or run your hands through his or her hair.Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss - there is no right way to kiss. What separates good kissers from bad is an ability to read a partner's body language and be responsive to their partner. Of course if your partner pulls away or seems uncomfortable at any time, slow it down or break apart and listen to what he or she wants. A little bit of force can be dangerous. On the other hand, if you hear a sigh or moan, or they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are enjoying and responding with a signal to go further a little bit wild. Don't become crazy instantly.Keep practicing to develop your style. Good French kissing, like good kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you do it more. In addition, the more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a style that suits both of you.
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