Here are some useful tips and advice for those who are either new or old players in dating. No one is a dating expert and we learn each and everyday about new ideas about how to date more and how to attract those people that we want and how to make sure the first meeting blooms into an enduring relationship.
There are no magical formulas, no fail proof methods but just some hard and fast rules developed from the daters experience and that works successfully in most of the cases. Different tacts work for different people and these all depends upon the situation like who we are, where we are and our living styles etc.
Here are some good steps of advice that are fairly universal and can help anyone who practice them:
Get prepared for dating. For gaining success in the dating game first of all you should be mentally prepared for that. Try to ask yourself some questions like who you are looking for, when and where are you looking for etc. Do your research and be ready to commit to dating. Be confident, as downheartedness won't work.Develop Personality. As first impression is the last impression, the good looking and confident persons can put a great impression in their first meeting. To begin a regime of looking your best you can start from joining a health club, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begins a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. These activities will boost your confidence level multi folds.Now is the time to choose the dress properly. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to look like someone you are not as it may create trouble afterward to keep the same personality every time. Choose your clothes according to the fashion, trend or season. People appreciate appearance.Keep good thinking about your dating goals and timescales. Decide when do you see yourself married and then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.Sort out your confidence levels in advance. By following the above tips you will feel better and be more focused. Be serious and try to do all the things that will boost your confidence and avoiding discussions with negative friends (often the married ones). Sometime to increase the confidence level, speed-dating events may be helpful.Choose those you have a good chance of dating don't aim low but do aim realistically. Do go for that you are not sure about good chances of success. Actually, your success is based on the whole package you present as well as your personality.If you spend time indoor or are a shy person then you should try work out in advance where in your neighborhood you are likely to meet people. You may also boost confidence by joining clubs, societies, sports events and drama groups, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners.If it's not going well or causing dating fatigue then you should take time off from dating occasionally. Dating is an ongoing process and so recharging the batteries and keeping the confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. So, date in phases, if necessary.Dating means meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not bring you a sparkle. Enjoy it for what it is for, and you surely will find the person you are looking for.People don't bother the things that are easily available. So, never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you the better are the chances for love to blossom.
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